Help!! Do I change my kids in school?

Question

We just found out that the school has been "rezoned" and my children will have to go to a different school next year. They are in grade 2 and k this year. Them going to this school is not an option. Very bad for violence . So we have 2 option for us. Option 1: We have found a house that would keep them at the same school they are at now, my 2nd grader is not doing the best at this school because of the way the school is set up. It does not have classrooms. It is a large open area the has 4 ft dividers between the rooms. My daughter has a small issue with ADD so this is hard for her. I have had 2 doctors tell me that this is not the right enviroment for her. My other daughter is doing VERY well here and in advance placement classes and does not deal well with change. OPTION 2: An apartment that will make them change schools.It is an elementary school that has classrooms like my oldest one needs. My youngest gets very upset by any type of change. They have to stay together.HELP

Answer 1

Look for private schools in the area that offer financial aid (depending on income you usually can get a full scholarship minus school fees). They usually offer a visit day where your kids can go and visit for a day and see if they like it. Find a school that fits both their needs. I have ADD and know that montisorri and waldorf schools are really good for our needs.

Answer 2

Your 2nd grader probably needs more help and I think you should focus on that. Even children who do not deal well with change, can learn to adapt. Your younger child can continue AP classes if that's what you want, in any school. And if you make it sound like an adventure, rather than a big deal, she'll be more likely to want to try it.



Another option is homeschooling. This can be done over the computer, through the school's text books, or through any curriculum of your choosing provided you follow the mandated laws for your state.



Have you considered the possibility of a charter school?

Answer 3

I would say you would be best to go with the school that is best for your ADD child. I moved a lot as a child (dad was in the military) and I never liked to change schools but had to almost every 4 years. Once you get used to the new school and make friends then it's not a big deal. So your daughter will adapt. It will be much easier to do now while they are still young....much harder as they get older. My last school change was in the 10th grade...that was by far the hardest move. Hope this helps and good luck with the kiddies. :-)

Answer 4

I'm sorry for your delimma! I have had problems with our school systems too and have had to move my children also. I would say that it is best to change schools. Although your younger daughter does not adjust to change well, she will eventually adjust. As I'm sure you know life changes constantly and it would be better to get her accustomed to change now then to wait and make it that much more harder on her. She will change when she goes to middle school and high school so this is just another change and hopefully for the the better for all of your children. Good luck!

Answer 5

if you can move, then do it. Also, ask about being grandfathered in to the old district zones. Finally, try asking if they accept transfers. If there is no conflict with transportation, and open room sometimes they will take out of district transfers (which would be more of a stayer than a transfer, but you get the point).



good luck

Answer 6

Although your youngest gets upset with change, she will eventually get use to the new enviroment.

Think about your oldest one. Do the right thing for her. Your youngest will adapt and be ok, your oldest will continue to have more and more problems if she stays in the same place.



Good luck =)

Answer 7

Duuuuuuude chill.



First, your kids do NOT have to change schools. Get a zone variance.. they can't make you switch schools.. hell, I've been out of zone for like 4 years now and they've never said anything.



But yeah, get a zone variance.. no worries.

Answer 8

You do have the option of homeschooling them. A good school is a rare find these days.

Answer 9

You should change them whenever the diaper gets dirty.